So last night I told my mom that I wanted to move out.
It went pretty well.
I have to give her a date.
She wants me to go to the justice of the peace.
I said no.
I told my fiance and he said he’ll wait and see. Last time I tried this I chickened out. So he said to pack my boxes and make sure we move out everything on a single day.
My dream wedding
Right now I’m stuck between three dresses because the orginal dress I wanted is no longer produced. I have two I haven’t seen and one I have tried on.
The Bridesmaids, Maid of Honor and Matron of Honor.
I haven’t any idea of who will be my bridesmaids but I know who I want to be my Maid of Honor and my Matron of honor. I know what style of dresses I want them to have.
The Groom and The Best Man and the Groomsmen
This is not my area of expertise, but I know that my Fiance has this taken care of. I really don’t want the suit and tie/bow tie only for the Groom and the Best man during the Ceremony. I don’t like it or nor see the need.
My ideal ceremony would be at the church were I was baptized and confirmed. I would love to be married there but we’ll have to see how things go. If they continue to be closed minded and ignorant I’ll get married elsewhere. Since my groom has “no faith” we have to see what we can or can’t do there.
I do want the reception and the ceremony separate. I know the dinner hall with the church is not adequate for the party. It wouldn’t hold 80 to 100 people comfortably so we will have to see where we will do it. It has been brought up doing it in a hotel ballroom since some of our guests will be flying in, we might be able to get a good deal. We are still open to discussion we just have specific areas we don’t want to have our wedding at.
Reception - Details
I have said this time and time again I do not know when or where I will be going on my honeymoon. My hubby has said that is his department and he will be in charge of that. It has been a surprise and will continue to be. No one in his family and especially mine no where he is taking me.
In case you guys and girls didn’t know I want to be wed on April 20th. It is the day we met, the day we became girlfriend and boyfriend, the day he proposed to me. It will be the day we wed. However in 2015 it will be a monday and we can’t get married in 2015 it will be too soon. However I have been looking at 2016, although it is on wednesday. We could married at the court in the middle of the week and have our celebration that weekend it would be the best course of action. I want it to be in the books on that day, april 20th.
So I guess that’s it for right now, a lot of this planning can’t go into effect until I move in with him. I really want to marry him and he wants to marry me and this is all I have planned for right now. Hopefully with time I can add or subtract from this post. You never know, a wedding is just a celebration of two souls becoming a union. In my heart he is already my hubs but I’m waiting for the day that everyone knows it too.
ugh I miss him. Do i really want to call and wake him up again…probably just sit and wait.